Yep, forget Futaba. even JRI (Futaba fan) sometimes cannot fathom their programming.
Its the mixing and configuration in the TX and maybe a bit of you. Can you put the ailerons on independent channels?
Meanwhile I will look through some settings for a similar set up in OpenTX. JR made it simple too.
Basically you are looking at a glider type configuration I believe. Flaps down and ailerons moving up but with roll control.